Cebu City --- Revisiting the key messages of the online youth conference attended by the girls who frequent our study center is a welcome and engaging task. We are not just talking here about the 68 participants from Cebu, Bohol, Butuan, Cagayan de Oro, Compostela Valley and Bacolod who signed up under Banilad Study Center, but close to a thousand registrants all over the Philippines, Indonesia and the rest of Asia-Pacific who made their strong presence felt virtually in the very first online youth conference organized by the Kalinangan Youth Foundation, Inc. (KALFI) dubbed as Generation Thrivers. This took place last July 31, 2021, from 1:00 to 5:00 pm.
This was our study center's second time to work closely with the Ways and Means Committee headed by KALFI's Vice-President Mrs. Mimie Huang, together with core group members Mags Valdez, Ellen Soriano, Viory Janeo and Meg Agner. The first time was last Christmas 2020, when an online Christmas Caroling fundraising event kicked-off, gathering financial support for the study centers under KALFI like Balanghai, Banilad, Daniw, Iraya, Tahilan, and Tipolo, to name a few. It was memorable because the online caroling happened on our study center's 38th Anniversary, December 19. It is moving to note that people contributed and sent their donations while we are still battling our way through this pandemic, to support leadership programs and community development initiatives of various KALFI study centers.
Generation Thrivers, with PLDT and Smart Foundation as its major sponsor, was one big affair that must have made an unprecedented impact in the lives of so many young people this year. Since KALFI centers cater to girls, one of the question marks we hurdled during the preparatory meetings was how to treat the registration of interested male attendees. It was a good thing that the smart retort from one of the core group members resolved the matter. We acknowledged the fact that we cannot control who will watch the livestreaming. So, for purposes of our internal records, girls may freely register on behalf of possible male participants. This must have amplified the reach of the event because we learned later that for each registered attendee, there were about 5 or more people attending with them. Talk about the multiplier effect.
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This online youth conference is considered an offshoot of an earlier online event organized by the University of Asia and the Pacific (UA&P) last April 2021 which featured international speaker Dr. Michele Borba, a renowned American educational psychologist. Dr. Borba highlighted the value of resilience in this conference entitled, Thrivers: Raising Mentally-Healthy Kids During Troubled Times. Getting its inspiration somehow from all the learnings taken from that conference, KALFI took it as a timely sign to promote the seven character strengths that it is committed to instill in the minds and hearts of all the girls who come to our centers. Timely because KALFI is launching its new logo. With Mrs. Monet Pablo, KALFI's President, and the support of former KALFI head, Mrs. Nits Sandejas, our foundation is establishing itself more stably as a good and reliable non-government organization. The 7 character strengths embodying the new KALFI logo are: Integrity, Empathy, Curiosity, Self-Confidence, Optimism, Self-Control and Perseverance. Influential speakers were tapped to bring to life what these virtues could awaken in our youth.
Our roster of speakers for Generation Thrivers shared their own powerful stories that encouraged our youth to dream big and to be fearless in cultivating a big heart.
Judge Rowena Tan, a regional trial court judge working in Samar province, shed light on how the character strength of Integrity is lived in the judiciary. Her personal experience from the time she was a young student of basic education up to the time she studied law, eventually working as a lawyer, and moving up towards becoming a government-appointed judge in her beloved province of Samar, surely left a mark in the minds of those who listened to what she went through. Amid all the obstacles, giving and providing justice to the marginalized in her hometown, and uplifting the way her profession is viewed is truly one for the books. But the story must not end there. What she achieved needs to be replicated in the lives of so many others, not just among students who study law, but in everyone's life.
Engr. Winchester Lemen, President and Owner of Envirotech Waste Recycling, Inc, opened our eyes to what Curiosity can do and empower in us. Engr. Lemen is a Filipino mechanical engineer who showed us how to turn plastic garbage into chairs! You may call it magic, but he piqued our interest to do something magically concrete to help the environment. His start-up company, Envirotech, has as its slogan, "We Reuse your Refuse." They are committed to promote proper segregation of recyclable plastic waste among the different communities they work with, foremost of which are public schools who benefit from what they produce from waste: plastic chairs and benches. As a result, among those who attended Generation Thrivers, we learned that some already got the contact details of Engr. Lemen to possibly collaborate with him and his company for community projects that can tackle recycling seriously.
Cebuana artist and educator, Mrs. Mary Rose Villacastin-Maghuyop, talked to us about Self-confidence. We must say that when her turn came to speak, the virtue she was tasked to magnify was tested to its core. Perhaps owing to weak internet connection and low bandwidth, she had to restart her talk more than twice, until KALFI's tech team finally had to stop the livestreaming all together to fix the technical glitch. When livestreaming resumed, our tech team worked doubly hard to save the day by taking over the presentation that Ms. Mary Rose was doing with the help of her daughter. So, finally, things fell into place. In her talk, Ms. Mary Rose gave us an acronym to remember: the word SELF. S is for See, E for Exposure, Experience and Expertise, L for Learned, and F for Faith. Alongside these are action words that can guide us in developing the confidence we need to face life. Recognize what we see around us. Rehearse and imbibe what we may experience or expose ourselves to. Reflect on what we learn, and rely on the help of God in whatever we are engaged in. Several attendees took to the Facebook comment button to say that our speaker on Self-confidence brought home the point by showing us in real time how it is to have grace under pressure.
Generation Thrivers was fortunate to have three public servants as speakers: our Department of Tourism (DOT) Secretary Bernadette Romulo-Puyat, Pasig City Mayor Vico Sotto, and Vice-President Leni Robredo.
Sec. Berna Romulo-Puyat talked about Optimism. She related her journey as a public servant while performing her duties as a mother and wife. What was remarkable in her story was when she related the time she got widowed, raising her kids as a hands-on single parent while being committed to her duties in public office, just like her father, politician and diplomat, Hon. Alberto Romulo. Optimism played a key role in her life which propelled her to be where she is now. She presently leads us all to Dream and Wake Up in the Philippines, the DOT's campaign to thrive during this pandemic.
Mayor Vico Sotto gave us a keynote address that was more than just inspiring --- it was life-changing. His involvement in the conference was confirmed at a later stage, but his presence in the event had something like a booster effect on us. Fresh from his vaccination that day, he faced all of us giving the best of himself. Highlighting Integrity in public service, he recounted events in his life that challenged the practice of the virtue. He bravely bared his personal principles and work ethics that must have left everyone in awe. It was inspiring to have to listen to this young leader before us.
Vice-President Leni Robredo gave us lessons on Self-Control and Perseverance. Her work being the second highest ranking official in government is no easy task as we can all see, but her mature and calm demeanor as a female leader more than makes up for what some news about her capacity feeds us with. Far from seeing the event as a political platform, we were all edified to note that she, together with the other two government leaders, bears the marks of of what a true public servant ought to embody: self-effacing, people-centered and God-fearing. We must be proud to have them around.
In a nutshell, we can say that we all went home from that conference so full and fired up to put all of KALFI's 7 character strengths to work in our lives. We were happy to receive so many kind words from the girls who attended the event, so grateful that they got to know about it, or were invited to it. They didn't mind the technical glitch that happened saying that even onsite events have them, thereby saying, what more can we expect from an online activity. How gracious they are.
While we wish to see how this online youth conference truly made a striking effect in the lives of all the attendees, we know that only time can tell. What puts a smile on our faces now is the fact that we have already started in our goal towards nurturing a generation of thrivers among the girls we have reached through this conference.
Generation Thrivers has created a safe space in cyberspace for those who want to prepare themselves for a fruitful future ahead, bringing with them the marks of a true thriver --- strong in resilience, empathy, and sense of responsibility.